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7 Ways your relationship can hurt your health

1<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/can-stock-photo_csp9044619.jpg"><img alt="can-stock-photo_csp9044619" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-809" height="212" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/can-stock-photo_csp9044619-300x212.jpg" width="300" /></a>.For better or worse Can your relationship status make a difference in your overall well-being? To borrow a commonly used Facebook phrase, it's complicated. Research shows that strong partnerships can help us avoid illness, adopt healthier habits, and even live longer. On the other hand, troubled relationships tend to breed stress and weaken immunity. "So many factors affect our health, whether it's the behaviors we exhibit toward each other or the habits that we pass on to each other," says psychologist Maryann Troiani, PhD, co-author of Spontaneous Optimism. So whether you're dating casually, shacking up, or already married, keep in mind these 12 key ways your romantic bond may influence your mind and bod 2.Weight gain It's a common belief that couples "let themselves go" after pairing off, and there may be something to it. According to a 2012 review, people tend to gain weight as they settle into marriage and lose weight when a marriage ends. But Troiani has seen the opposite happen quite often, as well: "A happy couple can motivate each other to stay healthy—they'll go to the gym together, set goals, and feel responsible for each other." When couples do pack on the pounds, she adds, it may be a symptom of conflict, not slacking off. "Dissatisfaction in the relationship can lead to passive-aggressive eating behaviors and sleep problems, which will lead to weight gain," she say 3.Stress levels Surprise, surprise: Regular physical intimacy appears to reduce stress and boost well-being. One study, published in 2009 in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, found that people who frequently had sex were healthier mentally and more likely to report greater satisfaction with their relationship and life overall. Sex is just one aspect of a relationship, however. And your partner's behavior outside the bedroom can just as easily send stress levels soaring in the opposite direction. Parenting disputes, disagreements over money, or even questions as simple as who does which household chores have been shown to increase stress. 4. Feel-good hormones Sex isn't the only type of physical contact that can lower stress and improve health. In a 2004 study of 38 couples, University of North Carolina researchers found that both men and women had higher blood levels of oxytocin—a hormone believed to ease stress and improve mood—after hugging. The women also had lower blood pressure post-hug, and lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol. "These types of caring behaviors are so important: a touch on the arm, holding hands, a rub on the shoulder," Troiani says. "It only takes a few seconds of contact to stimulate those hormones and to help overcome stress and anxiety. 5.Sleep problems Sleeping next to someone you love and trust can help you fully relax and embrace sleep, Troiani says. A big exception to that rule, of course, is if your bedmate keeps you up at night—by snoring, for instance, or by tossing and turning. In a 2005 poll, people were more likely to experience daytime fatigue and fitful sleep themselves if their partner was struggling with insomnia. Relationships can affect sleep in less direct ways, too. Research shows that relationship insecurity or conflict is associated with poorer sleep—and to make matters worse, sleep problems can exacerbate relationship problems, creating a vicious cycle 6.Anxiety Relationship difficulties can put anyone on edge, but in some cases they may actually contribute to full-blown anxiety. Several studies have found a link between marital problems and an increased risk of diagnoses such as generalized anxiety disorder and social anxiety. These links can be difficult to untangle, however, since anxiety has been shown to breed relationship problems (and not just vice versa). What's more, some research suggests marriage may help protect against anxiety. In a 2010 World Health Organization study of 35,000 people in 15 countries, those who were married—happily or otherwise (the study didn't specify)—were less likely to develop anxiety and other mental disorders 7.Depression Depression and anxiety often go hand in hand, so it makes sense that relationships can affect depression in similarly complex ways. On the one hand, some studies have found that long-term relationships—and marriage, specifically—can ease symptoms in people with a history of depression. On the other hand, fraught relationships have been shown to dramatically increase the risk of clinical depression. In one small but highly cited study, women—regardless of their personal and family history of depression—were six times more likely to be clinically depressed if their husbands had been unfaithful or if their marriages were breaking apart

7 Ways your relationship can hurt your health

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Things you should know after loosing your first love.......

<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/broken-heart.jpg"><img alt="broken heart" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-806" height="298" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/broken-heart.jpg" width="300" /></a>Losing your first love is no easy situation. I know, we’ve all probably had this happen to us, since it is rare most #people end up marrying their first love. Losing your first love is not the end of the #world, and there is a lot you can learn about losing that first special person in your life. Losing my first love was certainly not a walk in the park, but it taught me several #things about myself and love in general that I think are important. Keep these tips #below in mind if you’re struggling with losing your first love. 1. You Are Still Worthy Losing your first love can cause a lot of insecurity within, and it can make us want to shy away from relationships for a while. Remember that just because you lost your first love doesn’t mean you’re not worthy of love. If the breakup was your fault and you feel a need to make amends, so be it. If it wasn’t your fault, however, remember that it doesn’t mean you aren’t worthy enough to have made the #relationship work. You need to keep all this in mind so it doesn’t cause you to start believing lies about yourself, or what relationships you deserve to have in life.

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Lies We Believe About Men: Men Only Want One Thing!

<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/first-sex.jpg"><img alt="first sex" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-730" height="183" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/first-sex.jpg" width="275" /></a> By Juli Gorman. What more could he possibly want from me? Greg seemed dissatisfied with our love-making. Displeased, discontented, and disappointed. Put a “dis” in front of it, and Greg probably experienced it. I felt him becoming more and more distant. “What’s the matter?” I asked, exasperated. Without skipping a beat, Greg responded. “I want you to want me!” I seethed with anger and thought to myself. What? You want me to want you? Oh, please! Get over yourself. I am so sick and tired of not measuring up to your standards. Why am I never enough for you? I never deny you sex. Give me a break! “I don’t want to just have s3x with you, Julie. I want you to want me,” Greg continued. “I don’t just want to have sex. I want to make love. I want to connect. I want you to want to kiss me passionately.” TV scenarios of women dropping everything to respond passionately to their lover’s touch flashed through my mind. Seriously, Greg? You’re going to complain about my level of passion now? Most men would feel ecstatic if their wife didn’t say no to their physical advances. It’s not enough that I push my fatigue to the side to engage with you in bed? It’s not enough that when I’m not in the mood I willingly avail my body. No, that’s not enough for you! Now, you want me to rip off your T-shirt at the drop of a hat and be some bubbling bombshell who … Greg interrupted my thoughts. “Julie, I just want you to want me.” It was the third time he’d used that phrase, and I couldn’t take it any longer. “You want me to want you?” I erupted. “Greg, I have never denied your needs. I’ve never declined your advances. I’ve never—ever—ever said no to you!” I snarled with prideful disdain. He couldn’t rebuff that! “You’re right. You may have never said no, Julie … but you’ve also never said yes.” <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> As I looked into my husband’s eyes, I saw something I never noticed before. Greg displayed a passion for me, not just my body. I began to realize he wanted me to say yes to him in my heart, to love him with my soul, to connect with him in my mind. And so did God! Unfortunately, my view of sex swung on a pendulum of great extremes, both of which were wrong! On one side, I manipulated sex to maintain and keep Greg’s affection. On the other side I despised and held sex in contempt, secretly angry and privately disgusted by its demands. I performed sex out of fear of what would happen if I didn’t. My limiting thoughts stifled my expression of love. I didn’t want to feel that way, but I couldn’t help how I felt. I desperately needed God’s intervention to overcome the lie that Men only want one thing. Here’s the danger of believing that lie. As a single person, if I believe that Men only want one thing, I am more likely to make concessions to my faith and compromise my standards, believing this is what I’m supposed to do next. As a married woman, if I believe Men only want one thing, I’m tempted to treat sex as an item on my busy to-do list. Let’s see: I dropped off the dry cleaning, check. Chauffeured the kids to school, check. Made dinner by 6:00, check! Had sex with my husband, check! Check! Check! And, in the process, I miss out on the sexual intimacy and oneness God intended. The deception that a man only wants one thing violates God’s design. It mis-aligns God’s plan. God intended s3x as a celebration of oneness—oneness of body, mind, and spirit reserved for the union of a husband and wife in holy marriage. Married women, ask, “Do I express tenderness and connection in my love-making?” If not, ask God for a greater int!macy and renewed passion. Single women, ask, “Have I given away my affection outside of God’s design?” If so, ask for His forgiveness, and commit to express s3xual int!macy only within the confines of marriage. God wants husbands and wives to enjoy His gift of sexual intimacy within the confines of marriage. He desires us to celebrate the marriage bed and keep it holy. And within the confines of marriage, God encourages us to drink in intimacy and embrace unity with our spouse, not treat sex as another duty needing to be checked off our ever-growing list of responsibilities. For more help on this topic, pick up a copy of What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Men. You’ll discover strategic Scriptures, questions, and practical applications to align your thoughts with God’s and life-transforming insights on how to experience a more intimate relationship with Him.

Lies We Believe About Men: Men Only Want One Thing!

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10 Ways to Make the Best of a Terrible Date!

<img alt="" class="irc_mut" height="393" src="https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQ5t_4Ngz_8fXZXH3jWYu6e0nS-9DJBAyapC0tjJM7_2o3GYi4r" style="margin-top: 0px;" width="591" /> 1. Try every weird drink on the menu. Chocolate rum mudslide? Sure why not. Mango mojito? Down the hatch. Instead of hearing someone drone on about their day, you can hear someone drone on about their day and broaden your horizons. 2. Take a shot every time they ask you a typical small talk question. You might not have fun but at least you'll be drunk by the time they say, "So this weather, huh?" 3. Eat nachos. You're already out, and a day with nachos is never a bad day. Gandhi said that. No, sorry. I meant Guy Fieri. 4. Drag them to that movie no one else wants to see with you. The Zac Efron guilty pleasure you can't get anyone to go watch with you? Now you can go see it without looking like a creepy loner. Bonus: You're not supposed to talk during the whole thing. 5. See how long you can push the uncomfortable silence. Embrace it. Turn it into a game. Can you stare at a virtual stranger for five minutes without speaking? We shall see! <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> 6. Treat it like a therapy session. You've already decided you're never going to see them again, so why not tell them all your terrible secrets and politically incorrect opinions. Just vent to them. You'll feel better and they'll be left a broken shell of the person they once were, but at least you'll be pretty much guaranteed they won't send you a text at 2 a.m. next week like, "hey wut r u up 2??" 7. Make friends with the waitress. If you make it really obvious you're on a first date and it's not going well, you might be able to score some free breadsticks. Maybe she'll even come over and hang out with you while you desperately try to avoid conversation with this guy. 8. Network. You might not have a love connection, but maybe you can have a business connection. It's worth a shot. 9. Go to some weird fusion restaurant. If you're not worried about making a good first impression, you might as well go try that place that combines Buffalo wings and cereal. What's the worst that could happen? 10. Have meaningless s3x. Your date might be a boring human, but if you're at least physically attracted to them, you can end your dry spell. -cosmo

10 Ways to Make the Best of a Terrible Date!

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6 Good signs You’re in a Rebound Relationship......

<img alt="" height="249" id="irc_mi" src="http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/TheOtherWomanRebound-single-30.jpg" style="margin-top: 85px;" width="250" /> Are you dating again after a recent break up? You are positive about the relationship but find yourself getting confused whether you are actually in a rebound relationship. It is always good to tell your significant other that you are in a rebound relationship and that you are not ready to commit yourself in a serious relationship. Below are rebound relationship signs to watch out for. 1.  You couldn’t take the loneliness any longer- you have just been dumped by your ex, or experienced a bad relationship. After the break up you are automatically attracted to anyone who gives you attention. You are afraid of experiencing the feeling of loneliness and therefore can’t help but fall in love almost immediately. 2.  The ‘ex’ topic comes up all the time- you are always talking to your rebound partner about your ex which shows just how little in love you are with them. If you are truly in love with your partner, you would know that bringing up your ex in your conversations will only hurt them. 3.  Fantasies- you spend a long time imagining scenarios of you and your ex getting back together. If it makes you happy then you are in a rebound relationship. 4.  You flirt with other people of the opposite s3x- you want to feel that you are still hot and can get attention from people of the opposite s3x even though you are in a new relationship already. 5.  You are not looking for new ways to keep the relationship alive- you’re just going with the flow. You and your new date are happy. All you want is for your emotional needs to be satisfied and nothing more. 6. You experience intense emotions when you see your ex- all you want is to feel that you are in a better place or rather you do not need him/her by staying in the new relationship

6 Good signs You’re in a Rebound Relationship......

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Thoughts you should never share with your man!

<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/Top-10-Types-of-Men-to-Avoid-1.jpg"><img alt="Top-10-Types-of-Men-to-Avoid-1" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-631" height="220" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/Top-10-Types-of-Men-to-Avoid-1-300x220.jpg" width="300" /></a> Communication between you and your partner shouldn’t be strained, you should be open, say what you feel so you both can be on the same page. But some things should never be said, that is because these things can affect your relationship in negative ways and eventually break it. Here are some of those things you should never utter to your man or woman. 1.You and your ex; Whatever worked with your ex or didn’t work with your ex shouldn’t be said to your present partner. Leave the past in the past, because really what happens when you do these things is that your partner becomes really angry and jealous and this is not healthy. 2.The S3x; Of course, you can discuss what you want In the bedroom and what you aren’t comfortable with. But don’t tell your man, “your something is too small” or your woman, “You just sleep there like a log of wood”. Find a sensitive and nice way to convey whatever it is you are feeling. <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> 3.You’re fat; No, No and No. this doesn’t work in anyway. Women especially don’t exactly feel comfortable hearing this from their men, it takes away their self confidence and replaces it with insecurity and hurt. 4.I need to spend time away from you; there is never a nice way to say this, you might think since you aren’t asking for space in the real sense, but have you considered how much it might hurt to hear your partner whom you love so much and love spending time with, tell you your presence is beginning to bore them?

Thoughts you should never share with your man!

Communication between you and your partner shouldn’t be strained, you should be open, say what you feel so you both can be on the same page....

5 WAYS A MAN EXPRESSES HIS LOVE WITHOUT WORDS....

<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/couch-sex1.jpg"><img alt="couch sex" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-628" height="300" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/couch-sex1-191x300.jpg" width="191" /></a> 1.He lets everyone around him know you and who you are to him. so when he receives a call and he tells the person on the other end of the line he is hanging with *insert your name here* and the person automatically knows who you are, it means he has let the world know who runs his world. 2.He is willing to be scrutinized and made to feel slightly uncomfortable just for you. Whenever you tell him to come with you to a family function of yours where those your lousy and silly cousins make him feel very uneasy, he has no problem with going all the way for you. That is a man who doesn’t care about the trouble that comes with sticking with you. That Is a man who is probably head over heels with you and is in for the real deal. 3.He surprises you often with your favourite perfume, chocolate, labels and everything that is your favourite. It means the man cannot wait to see you smile and that means you mean the world to him. 4.He watches your best program on TV, even if it is Keeping Up With The Kardashians, knows your best song by heart and watches all the things you love to watch with you. A man who spends all this time with you just might be so much in love with you. 5.Your opinions matter to him. whatever you say about a particular situation doesn’t fall on deaf ears, because he listens and he takes it into consideration.

5 WAYS A MAN EXPRESSES HIS LOVE WITHOUT WORDS....

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How To Fall In Love All Over Again....discover the secret here!

<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/man-myths.jpg"><img alt="man myths" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-622" height="258" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/man-myths.jpg" width="200" /></a> Social media and Bellanaija weddings might have made relationships look adorable through pictures and hashtags and using beautiful words to convey feelings about what seems like a made-in-heaven relationship. But the truth is that, relationships are never happy hundred percent of the time like we are made to believe and see. Sometimes the attraction fizzles out like a lamp without oil, the chemistry seems to be reducing and we seem to be getting tired of our partners. In times like these, what also keeps us going is that we know we were in this for a reason in the first place. That’s great. What’s greater is, there are a million and one ways we can bring back the spark that once was there and now seems to be dying out by the day. 1.Get silly- If you look back at the beginning of your relationship, you are most likely going to remember the lots of crazy and silly things that you both did and that caused you to laugh a lot. These days, those things remain memories. However, you can bring them back to ignite the fire once again. Tell your partner, “Do you remember that one time we did this very silly thing?” Let them remember and laugh about it and plan to do it again and then do it again! Bring back the old times and be silly! 2.Be teenagers- Write notes; love notes, amateur poems, a few lines of how this person makes you laugh and makes you see the world only through their eyes. Make out at the back of a cab in traffic, steal kisses on that trip to the movies, make out in the cinema, do things that are usually attributed to teenagers. This is likely going to give you both some sort of high that hasn’t been there in a while and make you laugh at the teenage things you are both doing. It is also likely going to return the spark that’s fizzling out. 3.Vacations also work- I know vacations would paint the picture of some exotic island outside the country in your heads but no, maybe not that far. Not even that expensive. It could be some hotel very far away from where you live, where all you both do is stay together, spend time together, go out to sightsee or watch movies later and talk about nothing but you both. <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> This would open up a lot of emotions and feelings and give you the opportunity to repair what might have been damaged. 4.Communicate- Lack of communication usually drives people apart in a relationship and if you are not mind readers, you are not likely to know what the other person is thinking and misinterpret the things they do. So open up more and let your partner know its okay to open up too. A lot of things would be said, a lot of things would be felt and a lot of emotions will be purged. 5.Pick a fave show- It could be Tinsel, it could be Emerald, it could be OITNB, it could be Scandal or anything at all. Just pick a show both of you love and enjoy it together. It helps bonding. My ex and I used to bond over Grey’s Anatomy  for example and we had our fave xters and talked about why we loved them and all that. So pick the fave show and bond all the way. 6.Be Sweet- Go the extra mile to do really sweet and thoughtful things for him/her. Buy their fave cologne when they are least expecting, surprise them with dinner in a fancy restaurant… do anything at all that makes them happy. And see how they would light up and your relationship would have its spark back. Remember the things that brought you together in the first place- What was it that caused the initial attraction? Why did you fall in love with this person in the first place? What was that thing that made you think, oh he or she is the one for me? Remember those things and bring it back and watch how it would help your relationship. What are your own ways of bringing back the spark? -360nobs.com

How To Fall In Love All Over Again....discover the secret here!

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7 men women should avoid at any cost...

<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/married-couple-fighting.jpg"><img alt="Young couple not communicating after an argument" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-612" height="199" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/married-couple-fighting-300x199.jpg" width="300" /></a> The rebound shot A man, who is fresh out of a relationship, is still lurking in the transition. At this point of time, he can be quite weak and might lean on the nearest support he can find. But that doesn't mean that he's really fallen for you. Although for some people it has worked, but mostly in the long run, there can be no assurance of this one coming to term. No money, honey Understood you are not a materialistic girl, you are independent and are alright with going dutch on a date. Women don't necessarily want a rich millionaire, but a little something can be a good thing. Even the guy would feel his dignity is safe if he can contribute some. And a man who still cannot understand this - girl, dump the moron now! 'Ex' factor 'You are good, but she was better!' Are you still with a guy who says that? Bang your head on the nearest wall and tell him you might as well go back. He's not yet over the ex-relationship, and somewhere he's sulking about it. Good or bad, the experience could be anything, but the fact that he still talks about her doesn't help in getting the current relation any better. And even if you don't dump him, but make him realise, talk it out; and if it still doesn't work, it's unbelievable you are still putting up with it! 'Ex' out the friendly factor Men do have a tendency to still retain a certain amount of care for the woman they once loved. So, it doesn't make any sense for them to remain friends once it's over. What was there once can be re-ignited in some weak moments. So, dearest men, dump the 'ex' as 'friend' and concentrate on your current love. A bird in hand is always better than two in the bush. Love at first sight Well, it happens only in books or films. Most often, it's just a liking or lust. But love, dearies, takes time to blossom. So, lady, if the gentleman has told you 'I Love You' a bit too soon, hold your horses and don't jump into taking yet another big step. <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> 'The world is hard on me' No darling, you are just a selfish man who has taken certain wrong decisions perhaps, but doesn't want to admit it. I know you just said 'no', but deep down you know it's a 'yes'! Unaccountable, selfish or plain immature, grow up or stop pulling the other person down with you by blaming the world or her for your problems, lest she decides to move the 'problem' away from your life. Can't take 'no' for an answer Even if it's just gaining control over the remote. Read the key words 'gaining control' and get the hint. If you are ready to be a doormat, and are happy with it, man your relation is going to last a historical era! But if you are a person who commands respect, there are better people out there who give you that. Let Hitler be, you don't have to become his Nazi army. Mr. Richie Rich The poor little rich guy, if he shows off a lot of moolah, either he's going to run out of it or, well, just keep believing that 'love can be bought'! And if you're the guy who's lying about it, you're hurting your chances of having a real relationship as the facade will eventually come back to bite you. Momma's boy Better stay in momma's lap! If your guy can't move a nerve without 'mom's consent', you better move yourself away from him. Why? Because you don't know if she's anything like Jane Fonda in Monster-in-law, baby you are not necessarily Jennifer Lopez! Dad's the financier If the guy is still living with his parents despite being all but 25 years of age, are you still going to to live with him? The first thing he should do is get a job! If he cannot do that, he's be dependant on dad, or you! And if you cannot pay his bills, 'you are a no-good girlfriend' is all you'll hear from him!

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The 6 types of men that always cheat!

<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/kinugu.jpg"><img alt="kinugu" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-606" height="183" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/kinugu.jpg" width="275" /></a> 1.Not a mama's boy: We all know the mama's boy types and they can be really annoying too. But if your guy isn't too attached to his mother and has a tumultuous relationship with her, you can bet that he isn't the kinds who will stay around for too long (think Charlie Harper from Two and a Half Men). If you've heard him talk badly of her (even though he's only known you for a short while) or even if he insults or yells at her when you're around, he doesn't respect her and neither will he respect you. 2.The mystery man: His mysteriousity may be the reason you fell for him in the first place, but if he is secretive at all times, gets jumpy when you as much as touch his phone and has an empty message folder - cheater alert! People who cheat are secretive about things, he will never tell you where he is going or what he has been upto. But yes, he will love knowing all about you. He is a good listener because he doesn't want to talk anyway. 3.Affection, what's that? He can charm you in a matter of seconds and flirt in such a way it will make you melt into a blubbery mess, but when it comes to affection he is aloof. He's excellent at physical intimacy but if a block of wood has more emotion that he does, you better run, because he isn't going to be around for too long. <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> 4.Honey, I forgot! If he forgets to show up on dates or calls to cancel last minute, he is definitely a cheater. He probably had a better option than you, someone who he doesn't have to go to watch a chick flick with or go shopping with and so he royally dumped you at the last moment. Steer clear of such guys, all they are is trouble. 5.Possessive and protective: He loves to control you; he likes to know where you are without giving out his own info. This guy is just trying to make sure where you are so you don't bump into him with someone else. But he is never going to tell you where he is. If your boyfriend asks you to stop hanging out with certain friends at the start of a relationship, it is time to get a reality check on him. 6.He keeps you a secret: This one's a sure shot giveaway, he wants to keep the relationship a secret until it's the 'right time'. So you've never met any of his friends, but he's met yours. This is probably because he wants to make sure he knows there faces, lest he bump into them with his other girlfriend. His facebook status is single and if a girl flirts with him, you only assume she is doing so because she isn't aware he is taken.

The 6 types of men that always cheat!

1.Not a mama's boy: We all know the mama's boy types and they can be really annoying too. But if your guy isn't too attached to ...

9 Things never to tell your hubby....

<img alt="" class="irc_mut" height="393" src="https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcS35yvT3jlpxVburkbjsH9_U_FNDPGsrJtEs-o5i7YL-aHxg8WG" style="margin-top: 0px;" width="526" /> First comes: "Yes, I had an org@sm." Another statement that is a strict no-no is "You're just like your father." It's nasty and belittling, says Ford. The third forbidden statement is actually very common: "When are you going to find a new job?" The fourth hurtful statement is: "My mother warned me you'd do this!" The fifth line, which is never a good idea to say, is "Just leave it — I'll do it myself!" Just because he's doing something differently than you would doesn't mean that he's doing it wrong. <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> The sixth statement, which can be heart breaking, is "You always... [fill in the blank]" or "You never... [fill in the blank]" Then seventh statement that can be a serious blow is "Do you really think those pants are flattering?" Saying so, you're insulting his looks without showing any genuine concern for his health, according to Ford. Then eighth harsh statement is "Ugh, we're hanging out with him again?, which is an insult to your man's choice of friends. The last but not the least is "Please watch the kids. But don't do this, take them here or forget that..." Let Dad-be-dad.

9 Things never to tell your hubby....

First comes: "Yes, I had an org@sm." Another statement that is a strict no-no is "You're just like your father." It...

9 CREEPY things guys do when they like you!

<img alt="" class="irc_mut" height="393" src="https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQbOwCZJX5mT7Ft-bGE8QPwHHrZesAEvUHI4VW-UJ5VT-egS1EjmQ" style="margin-top: 0px;" width="229" /> 1. Cyber-stalking: Imagine waking up to a thousand notifications from a person you have just met, he has not only liked each and every picture of yours but has also made a point to comment on them. Well, it is bound to send a shiver down your spine picturing that the guy dug into your social media profile all through the night. 2. Hinting about marriage: How can you expect someone to commit to you when that person barely knows you. You might be a wonderful person and may have already started picturing her as the mother of your children and your soul-mate and other things but, she still doesn't feel the same way for you. It's like you're pressurising her to define the relationship and remember it's a stereotype that only men are commitment-phobic, women can also be afraid to commit. 3. Bragging about money: It's an earnest request to all the men out there, please STOP thinking that she needs your money. It's nothing more satisfying for a woman to live on her own and being able to buy whatever she needs with her own hard-earned money. So, please refrain from bragging how rich you're, even though, inadvertently, as you cannot buy her love with money. 4. Incessant texting: You have just entered her life and you want minute-by-minute updates from her. Wasn't she eating food properly before she met you or can't she sleep without a 'good night' message from you? It's irksome and you come across as pushy. Girls see these guys as potential psycho stalkers and want to run away from them. 5. Relentless calls: There's always a reason why someone hasn't reverted to your text or phone call. Making frantic calls won't make a difference when a person is busy or has decided not to talk to you. This just means that you're clingy and aren't busy enough to have a life of your own. <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> 6. Paying for everything: So both of you went for lunch and ate equally. Why should one person be bearing the cost of the entire meal? It's completely okay if you both pay alternatively but it's unacceptable when someone whips out their wallet every time they see a cash register. This just starts to make a woman feel that the man wants her to be indebted to him, whereas splitting the cost makes her feel equally respected. 7. The 'S' talk: Bringing sex in the conversation too soon just indicates that the guy wants to get laid and he has probably tried it with a couple of ladies already but haven't had any luck so far. You need to give considerable time for taking the relationship to the next level. 8. Boasting about past relationships: Okay, so you might have dated countless girls in the past but the truth is that none of those relationships worked for you. Why would you like to boast about it then especially when it's indicative of the fact that there must be a problem with your behavior or you've had commitment issues in the past? 9. Showering with unnecessary gifts: There are NO visceral feelings women develop towards men who buy them things. Plus, gifts and especially those extravagant ones only impress gold-diggers who don't stay longer either. Money can't buy you her approval or love, so do yourself a favour and refrain from such practices.

9 CREEPY things guys do when they like you!

1. Cyber-stalking: Imagine waking up to a thousand notifications from a person you have just met, he has not only liked each and every pictu...

What men desire, What women desire...

<img alt="" class="irc_mut" height="393" src="https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcR4EOGO_rGRVeisoV6tt4IeHjV27Xoi5kfe3cRElbtBBxRJA5EL" style="margin-top: 0px;" width="591" /> A Man looks for... 1.A woman who is independent: An independent, mature man desires a woman who inspires and has a mind of her own. A confident and successful man will not be frightened by a woman who is independent and successful in her own life. He wants a woman who knows what she wants from life. A great guy wants a woman who knows how to stay busy and not make the man in her life her world. She should be having a stable career of her own and a good circle of high flying friends. 2.A woman who is emotionally stable: A man will love a woman who is stable in her thinking and knows how to handle a relation maturely. Ranjit Mathur, a corporate head honcho, says, "A woman must have the maturity not to criticise and play the blame game when something goes wrong. I like my woman to know how to handle her emotions." That doesn't mean that a woman should be suppressing her emotions all the time so that she appears desirable to her man. But she should be able to express her feelings in a calm and dignified way. Men, who acknowledge and love a woman for who she is, are drawn to (and not intimidated by) this feminine presence in its unabashed expression. He is not judgmental of a woman on the basis of ages of mindless social conditioning. He is evolved enough to be able to see her love and her light, surrender to it, and thereby, make it his own. 3.A woman who is well turned out: A great guy is not intimidated by a woman who knows how to dress up for the occasion and is well groomed. They love women who know how to take care and pamper themselves. Talking about his fiancee, Ayan Paul, a banker, says, "There is an aura about her. She has a poise that can make heads turn. She knows exactly what to wear for what occasion and how to carry herself. She gives importance to every single detail, starting from her hair to her shoes. That is the most attractive thing about her." 4.A woman who is playful: A playful woman is every man's desire. They love women who are active and interested in sports. Youthfulness and playful behaviour are some of the attributes that make a woman attractive. A little mischief and a little playfulness is what a man loves to see in his woman. Small carefree moments that you create together make a lasting impact on the relationship. 5.A woman who is attractive: Men love women who are attractive. They are not scared of commitment, and they love passion in their relationship. Women should be a little innovative and know the art of flirting. So, when you meet a man for the first time, be a little playful and mischievous. Instead of asking him what he does for a living, ask him what he drives, what brand he wears and what sports he plays. Make sure that you are witty in whatever you say. Keep the relationship fun, and do not let the passion die. A woman looks for... <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> 1.A man with a quirky sense of humour: That killer smile and quirky sense of humour is a great turn on for women. They like to settle down with someone who can make them laugh. "A life partner who can make her laugh even in the drabbest time of her life is what every woman wants. I am in my late 30s, but I am still a child at heart. Only a humorous person can make me feel alive," says Ragini Sharma, a freelance writer. 2.A man who is understanding: Having someone who understands her is what a woman wants in a long-standing, matured relationship. It is like having someone who completely knows you for the person that you are, both inside and out. Then there is no misunderstanding regarding anything. Rajni Shah, a software professional, says, "Let me be the way I am — that's exactly what I told my husband when we were dating each other. Because one day, I don't want to be tired of pretending to be someone else." Since he knows you for the kind of person you are, it becomes lot easier to have that special bond to keep the relationship alive. 3.A man who makes a woman feel secure: Security, both emotional and financial, is what every woman looks for in a relationship. Times have changed and so have relationships. One doesn't need to be a millionaire to woo a woman, but she needs to know that she matters to you. Writer Proyashi Barua says, "He should have the courage to stand up for the woman he loves under all trying circumstances and this can happen only when he is bold and gutsy. A man might me romantic and genuinely in love with a woman, but every romance in this world has an individual/unique trajectory. It's up to both of them to guard /uphold their love under all circumstances. A woman wants a man to be strong both physically and mentally because that's what makes her happy and feel safe and protected. 4.A man who is honest: A woman doesn't like a dishonest man. She wants to be an important part of his life. So, a man needs to be honest to the woman in his life, no matter what happens. She expects him to share his pleasant and unpleasant experiences in life and not hide anything from her. Relationship counsellor Ronita Dixit says, "Never hide anything from a woman, especially serious matters. But white lies like telling her she still looks slim are acceptable." 5.A man who is well groomed: It is as important for a man to be well turned out, smell good and dress well. Girls go gaga when they see a man who is in shape and and has a good body. A man needs to make a good impression to make a woman go weak in the knees. So, it is time for men to do a style check and develop a trademark statement of their own, but he shouldn't follow trends blindly.

What men desire, What women desire...

A Man looks for... 1.A woman who is independent: An independent, mature man desires a woman who inspires and has a mind of her own. A confi...

10 Reasons Why You Should Marry a Foreigner...

<img alt="" height="360" id="irc_mi" src="http://blackhairmedia.com/wp-content/uploads/Black-Man-White-Woman.jpg" style="margin-top: 17px;" width="650" /> 10. That glorious accent! Who knew an “R” could be rolled that way! 9. Foreigners are oh-so-sophisticated. Whether they grow up on a farm, in the city, poor or rich, they just have an air of sophistication about them.  They simply can’t help it! 8.  He thinks I am fascinating. When we met in Ireland, he didn’t realize how completely common I am in my home country… too late now! 7.  I have an open-ended excuse to travel. Ok, sometimes this can be completely annoying since every vacation abroad is filled with visiting his family but hey, at least I have a reason to board the plane and it is great not to have to cook and clean for a month. 6. Our children will speak another language and we won’t have to pay an expensive tutor. <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> 5.  Two weddings. I’ll admit that we didn’t end up having our second wedding (the “American wedding”) which upset my side of the family to no end (we really did want to have one, honestly, I swear!) but the excellent excuse for getting family and friends together twice is fantastic! 4.  He automatically charms friends and family. See #9 above… Need I say more? 3.  Chocolate and more chocolate. I finally have an excuse to indulge in that high quality chocolate (the kind that melts in your mouth like nothing else in the world) that he can’t live without! 2.  I love a challenge. Who would want to have a simple, normal, easy relationship? Especially after our children arrived, things got really challenging (and it wasn’t the decision of whether to use cloth or disposable – that decision was the easiest: cloth!). 1. True Love! It just couldn’t be any other way! Meeting in Ireland, breaking up in Versaille for an excruciating 10 minutes, meeting the families, being separated for a year to finish college… it was all worth it and made our relationship even stronger.  After all of that, there was no way I could let him go, ever!

10 Reasons Why You Should Marry a Foreigner...

10. That glorious accent! Who knew an “R” could be rolled that way! 9. Foreigners are oh-so-sophisticated. Whether they grow up on a farm, i...

Things You May Confuse For Love But Aren’t...

<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/menexpect1.jpg"><img alt="menexpect" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-576" height="183" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/menexpect1.jpg" width="276" /></a> 1.Great and amazing friendship You know that thing they say about you “loving” your friends and being “in love” with your partner? I would like to tell you that the love you feel for your friend and the one you feel for your partner is the same. I would love to say that the “in” before the other love is just preposition but the love you feel for a friend, no matter how strong isn’t the type you feel for a partner. If the person you are with has an amazing friendship with you and they do things they would usually do for people they love and you start confusing these things to mean they are absolutely in love with you, then it means you are in a one sided relationship that would hurt you pretty much soon. Great friend don’t equal great lover. 2.Fun times Of course you should be able to have fun with the one you love. Time should speed by without you even realizing it when you are with your special someone but this shouldn’t equate genuine love. Be sure that this time you spend together does mean something real to this other person. Do not be fooled by how hard they laugh when they are with you or how they eyes twinkle when you say some words. The fact that you feel this is special doesn’t mean they think it is special as well. <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> 3.Companionship Being single for a very long time can cause you to search for a soulmate of some sort, especially if you are the type that doesn’t stay single for long. While it is not a bad thing to search for a soul mate, what you should be wary of is confusing the feeling you have for this new person for something concrete. If you have been lonely for a while, chances are that the new person you meet would make you fall head over heels and this might not be the same way for the other person. You would most likely hurt if this person doesn’t feel the same way. So take caution. 4.Familiarity Before now, he/she never allowed you past his/her sitting room. Now when you visit them, they allow you to even use their personal bathroom and you sometimes even cuddle. If you allow this to process in your head as something special, you might be in trouble. That is because it might mean they are falling for you in your head, but to them it might just be the next stage for someone they feel very relaxed around. Do not mistake familiarity to love. 5.Going the extra mile I know someone who goes the extra mile for ALL his female friends. He literally abandons what he is doing at anytime, picks his car keys and dashes to wherever the friend who has a problem is. If this guy had a chance, he would make a cape, design a superhero costume and take a full time job of saving damsels in various forms of distress. If you meet this type of guy and he brings your favorite flavor of ice cream and cake at night, sits with you and helps you through a hard day or he darts in through the door anytime you have a meltdown and somehow you mistake it to mean he is falling for you, then you are in big trouble. You know why? Because that’s him being him and you will be falling in love when he is just being him.

Things You May Confuse For Love But Aren’t...

1.Great and amazing friendship You know that thing they say about you “loving” your friends and being “in love” with your partner? I would l...

Why You Shouldn’t Live With Him before Marriage!

<img alt="love1" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-570" height="199" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/love1-300x199.jpg" width="300" /> Dear Loni, My mother says if I move in with my boyfriend, he’ll never marry me. Is she right? Signed, Boxes Are Packed <div class="ezAdsense adsense adsense-midtext" style="text-align: left; margin: 12px;"></div> Dear Packed, Your mom doesn’t want you sh@cking up with someone because you’re her baby and she is trying to protect you. You know the saying “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” Your mother is trying to keep you from being a cow . . . a mad cow, that is. If marriage is your goal, then your mom is right: you need to be very careful about moving in together, because once a girlfriend moves in, it’s very easy for her to start acting like a wife. And if you play the role without a ring, you’re in big trouble. My friend Cathy had been dating Jim for two years when Jim suggested they move in together. Cathy thought living together would be a perfect way for her to show him how wonderful his life would be if the two of them got married. As soon as she moved in, Cathy went into “wife mode,” cooking and cleaning and doing Jim’s laundry. She spent all her social time with Jim’s friends and family. She opened a joint bank account and tried s3xual positions she had promised herself she would only do when she was married. After two years, it occurred to Cathy that maybe Jim hadn’t proposed because he was getting the milk for free. So Cathy went on strike and started acting like a roommate instead of a spouse. Cathy would make herself lavish dinners for one and hand Jim the stack of takeout menus. When Jim had a hard day at work, she would pretend to listen to him complain while texting her friends about what to wear to the club. When Jim’s mom came over for a visit, Cathy would leave. After three months of Cathy’s friend-with-no-benefits behavior, Jim had had enough. He wanted his wifey back, but this time he knew he had to do it her way. He proposed, and now the two of them have been happily married for five years. The moral of the story is, if you want to be married, don’t act like a wife until you’ve got that ring on your finger.

Why You Shouldn’t Live With Him before Marriage!

Dear Loni, My mother says if I move in with my boyfriend, he’ll never marry me. Is she right? Signed, Boxes Are Packed Dear Packed, Your mom...

Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking for In Women..

<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/serious-dude1.jpg"><img alt="serious dude" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-543" height="150" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/serious-dude1-300x150.jpg" width="300" /></a> By Allie Churchill. Contrary to what you might think, most guys aren't looking for a supermodel. They're just looking for their perfect match: a woman who's down-to-earth, sweet and sensitive to his needs. 1. Confidence Take it from the guys, nothing is sexier than a woman who's comfortable in her own skin. If you're guilty of meekly asking lines like: "Does this skirt make my thighs look fat?" …stop asking. If you're constantly needing his reassurance that you're beautiful, he may start asking questions himself. 2. Intelligence Acting like a bimbo loses its novelty to men after high school. What men want in a girlfriend is a woman who can stand as his equal. So be the smart, savvy woman you are! To him, it's a total turn-on. 3. Unmaterialistic Yes, he wants to be your knight in shining armor. And yes, he wants to treat you like the princess you are … but that doesn't give you license to act like one. Allow him the luxury of treating you with romantic dinners and surprise baubles without having to demand them of him. He'll be relieved that he doesn't have to try so hard and surprisingly, this will inspire him to rise to the occasion when he doesn't have to dedicate his whole paycheck to lavish tokens of his love for you. 4. Spontaneity One of the first things to go in a relationship is the spontaneity. You get stuck in your Friday night dinner dates and you lose that spark you had when you first started dating each other. Don't lose it! Men love a woman who can do things spur-of-the-moment. 5. Laid-Back What's one of the best things you can do for your relationship with him? Relax. Just relax. When you come home from a long, hard day at work and see those dishes piling up in the sink, we know you have the urge to lash out at him. Instead, try to let it go for the night. No man likes a nag and every man likes a woman who can let her hair down and doesn't sweat the small stuff. We're not saying to just kick back and bro out with him, but a relationship is solid when you're able to relax with each other. <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> 6. Playfulness Guys like a girl who laugh at their jokes, but isn't mindless and isn't always serious about everything. Just as we mentioned that men like a woman who can forgo nagging him about the dishes, they like a woman who can joke about the dishes too. Biting remarks and snappy comebacks are just the witty repartee to keep the spark between you in your relationship. And hey, isn't laughter the best aphrodisiac? 7. Sensuality We've already mentioned before that it's not all about your looks (albeit, that's a good motivator for some men) — it's more about an air of sexiness and confidence that will draw his eyes to you when you enter the room. Embrace your femininity. Ditch the sweatpants for date night and take the extra ten minutes to pull the LBD from the back of your closet. You shouldn't feel pressured to strut around the bedroom in lingerie and high heels like a Victoria's Secret angel every night, but you should feel comfortable in your own sexuality…and expressing that sensually to your man. 8. Honesty If he can't trust you — how can he ever see you as his girlfriend … and eventual spouse? Keep things open and honest in your relationship. A little white lie over flirty texts with an old guy friend from college can spiral out of control very quickly into a full-blown fight … and breakup. 9. Independence Dating a driven, passionate woman? So hot. Babysitting a stage five clinger? Not so much. No man wants a girlfriend they have to reassuringly text, call or visit every five minutes. Give him his poker night with the boys. Let him go golfing on a weekend. Learn to give your guy his space — or he may break up with you to get it. 10. Supportive As clichéd as it is, some men want to be caretakers … but even the strongest of men want a soft place to fall. He wants to know that you'll support him and stand by him in his life choices, whether it's changing careers or moving to a new city. Show your support in small gestures with a quick "I love you" text when he heads off for his morning commute and listen to him after a hard day's work. Be supportive — but not suffocating. The last thing you want is to remind him too much of his mother.

Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking for In Women..

By Allie Churchill. Contrary to what you might think, most guys aren't looking for a supermodel. They're just looking for their perf...

10 Signs She is Not a Wife Material.....Watch out!!!

<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/Cheaters.jpg"><img alt="Cheaters" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-533" height="159" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/Cheaters-300x159.jpg" width="300" /></a> 1. She is too envious If your girlfriend is unreasonably envious when you hangout with your female friends and colleagues, it’ll be a big problem should you get married to her. 2. She doesn’t respect your boys When your girlfriend doesn’t respect your boys then you should not pose the big question. Your boys are people who  go  way back   in  your life .If you girlfriend suggests  that  you should keep away from them  just  keep in  mind that  you two can never be married. It’s one whopping sign that she is not a wife material. 3.  She is too insecure When your girlfriend wants to know all that you have been up to! If she stalks you and suggests that all your attention should be driven to her, then she doesn’t trust you. Well, if she can’t believe you now, and you are clearly not in the wrong – better not marry her or it will get worse when the two of you are married. 4. She is materialistic If your wife is so into material possessions, this is one of the surefire signs she is not a wife material . She always wants you buying her expensive shoes, jewelries or handbags! Be assured that she is only after your money and a good image to show case to others. Definitely no substance for a good wife! 5. She is a non-committer If she is a non-commiter  then she is a no-go-wife quality zone. She is someone who is never committed to her  friendships, her work assignments or  colleagues .Do not expect her to be committed to a marriage because sooner or later she would want to walk out. <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> 6. s3x drive incompatibility If your girlfriend s3xual drive is incompatible with yours, keep your distance. Her s3xual drive might be higher or lower than yours so it is better to find out before you set your mind to marry her. s3x being paramount to a good relationship it’s safer not to marry her if your s3xual drives are different. 7. She doesn’t appreciate you When your girlfriend does not appreciate your personality and she always wants to change you – an absolute sign she is not a wife material. If you are planning to marry someone ensure that she appreciates you and aims at helping you become better.If she does not do that, then she is not a wife material. 8.She doesn’t know how to prepare your best dish Another one of the devil-in-the-detail signs she is not a wife material, your girlfriend does not know how to prepare your best meal. When you see she is making no effort to learn how to prepare it then don’t marry her cause she will never do it. 9.She is not independent When your girlfriend doesn’t make any effort to achieve anything in life! She hasn’t set any goals for herself and is not bothered by the fact that she is always dependent on you. This proves that she is not a  wife material. 10.She has cheated on you If your girlfriend has cheated on you while you were dating, this is a sign she is not a wife material! You can never get any assurances that she won’t cheat on you again. Keep your eyes open just as much as you open your heart. Keep looking for these signs that she is not a wife material.

10 Signs She is Not a Wife Material.....Watch out!!!

1. She is too envious If your girlfriend is unreasonably envious when you hangout with your female friends and colleagues, it’ll be a big pr...

10 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Amazing in Bed..

<a href="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/ilov1.jpg"><img alt="ilov" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-527" height="300" src="http://themidnightfantasies.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/ilov1-260x300.jpg" width="260" /></a> 1. He always makes sure you come first. Like literally. And when you do come, it's some The Notebook type shit but it's happening to you for real and you can't even believe it. 2. He reciprocates o'ral s3x. No one's keeping score or anything but he loves going down on you and does it often and well. And for bonus points, he actually goes down on you way more often then you go down on him, thus making up for the hoards of inferior boyfriends who never, ever, ever went down on you because they were the worst. 3. He doesn't make fun of your fantasies. You feel completely comfortable talking about things you might wanna try and that is super important! Even if he isn't up for dressing up like a unicorn while you guys French in a bathtub, you don't feel like a tool for bringing it up. 4. He doesn't ignore your non-v@gina ero'genous zones. Oh also, he knows what your non-v@gina ero'genous zones are without having to Google them and that they're just as important, if not moreso, than your v@g. 5. He doesn't feel threatened by your v!brator. You know you're with some kind of s3x genius when he's not threatened by your seriously incredible v!brator because he knows it doesn't compare to what he can do, and you know it too. <h1>Continue Reading on Page 2 Below</h1> 6. He's up for trying new things. "You want me to try an an@l plug while we have s3x in an airshaft? OK, sure," is a thing you can actually imagine him saying. 7. He never makes you feel weird about your body. Ever. And compliments you so often that no matter what time of month or year it is, if you've gained or lost weight, you feel so much like Beyoncé when you're with him that you're pretty sure you could score a modeling deal if you wanted to. 8. He doesn't push your head near his p3nis. Because he knows this is psychotic! Talk about potentially triggering, super intrusive, and very presumptuous. You know what else works? Asking! Your guy knows all of this and he would never pull that shit. 9. He kisses you after or'al s3x. Doesn't matter who gave or received, he knows that you guys are together and body fluids are all part of the deal. He's not grossed out by your body or his. 10. He stops when you say stop. This shouldn't make someone a s3x god or a saint because it's something everyone should do, but your guy is great because you know he will practically run out your front door if you tell him no. Solid dude.

10 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Amazing in Bed..

1. He always makes sure you come first. Like literally. And when you do come, it's some The Notebook type shit but it's happening to...