Has My Woman Been “Faking It” In The Bedroom This Entire Time?!....Advice needed.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard men say “If my woman was faking it, I’d know!”
Oh yeah, I’m sure you would.

As admirable as it is that men so confidently believe they know just how their women think & feel, or more importantly, that they definitely satisfy her in bed, the truth is women fake org@sms. Actually, about 99% will admit to at least faking it more than once, and for some, it’s all the time. And almost always, men can’t tell the difference.

Although women are a lot more vocal about their s3x lives now in the 21st Century, many women don’t feel comfortable telling a man how they like things done in bed, let alone admitting that he really isn’t doing it for her at all, because the truth is, women understand just how fragile the male ego really is. Men would like to believe that when they are making love to a woman, they’re giving her the best experience of her life, every single time or at least that they’ve satisfied her better than a previous partner ever could. And most are even convinced that they know the signs; one being how ‘dripping wet’ she becomes (which is hardly an indicator just to let you know!)

Knowing all this, how does one then begin to confess that they didn’t org@sm this time, or – for at least 10% of all women- never org@sm at all?
Wait, so do you mean to say some women never org@sm at all? Yes, that is exactly what I said. It’s called anorg@smia, the inability to reach org@sm either by any means or during certain s3xual situations, and believe me when I say, it’s actually quite normal.

At this point, you’re probably asking why would she fake it?
The reasons could be endless, but there are a few common reasons.
1.) She’s tired, and wants nothing more than for it to be over and you to get off her.
2.) She may feel guilty that she’s taking too long, so faking it will give you the signal that you no longer have to work on it.
3.) She wasn’t in the mood in the first place, but to avoid any arguments or unnecessary tension, she just decided to go along with it.
4.) She’s mad at you, maybe not mad enough to tell you, but just know she’s cussing you in her mind and smiling about how you are such an idiot you can’t tell the difference.
5.) You just don’t turn her own. Your beer gut and smelly breath makes her cringe everytime but maybe she loves you too much to hurt your feelings, or doesn’t love you at all and has her own ulterior motives, so she’ll pretend to enjoy it and end it with an Oscar-winning climax.

So where do we go from here?

You’ve just figured out your girlfriend or wife has probably been faking it this entire time, do you ask her about it? Do you beat yourself up for being the worst lover possible on the face of the planet? Do you now swear off women forever and move into a cave in the mountains?
The latter would probably be extremely difficult for most, but what you can do is your research to find out other ways you can stimulate your woman, or perhaps try asking her what she likes next time, if at the very least, she’ll know you care enough about her to put in the effort of helping her achieve a REAL one.

by Brenda K