9 Signs You Might be Bad at S3x....Must read!!

1. Self-Consciousness

One of the most telling signs you are bad at s3x is a high level of self-consciousness. If you’re afraid to be seen nekked, to have s3x with the lights on, or to let your partner touch you in certain places, it definitely manifests as bad s3x. That’s not necessarily the case, but it will seem like it. To really enjoy s3x, and to be good at it, it helps if you’re comfortable in your own skin.

2. You Don’t Say What You Want

Not only will this make you seem bad at s3x, but it will make your partner seem bad, too. It can be really hard to just come out and say what you want, but it’s necessary. After all, how else can your partner know?

3. You Don’t Know What You Want

You might say that this just can’t be one of the signs you are bad at s3x, because you can’t possibly know what you want, but that’s not true. Even if you have little or no experience, you can think about the things you’d like to try. You may not end up liking them, true, but you do know if you want to try something.

4. You Don’t Take Control

It’s not always your partner’s job to take control. When you’re incredibly passive, that’s not going to be fun for either of you. You don’t have to be dominant or super aggressive, but it may help if you’re willing to take control some of the time, at least.

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5. You Giggle a Lot

Now this one is kind of tricky. Laughing in and of itself is not one of the signs you are bad at s3x. In fact, laughing when you’re intimate can be a good sign! However, if you keep giggling like an embarrassed school girl and turning the whole scene into something childish, then yeah, that’s a problem.

6. You’re Really Quiet

If you’ve ever watched an adult film, you know those girls scream and yell like nobody’s business. While some girls do really react that way, a lot of us don’t and you don’t have to either. However, you also shouldn’t be so quiet and still that it seems like you’re not there. At best, that’s going to make your partner really paranoid.

7. You Analyze too Much

It’s completely natural to put a lot of thought into thinking about what you want to do or if you want to do anything, especially if you’re inexperienced. However, if you and your partner have been together for a while, sometimes you just need to go with the flow. Don’t over-analyze everything, because that takes the spontaneity out of the situation, and that can definitely lead to bad s3x.

8. You’re No Maintenance

Being a low maintenance girl is not one of the signs you are bad at s3x, so don’t worry. However, when you’re a no maintenance girl, who doesn’t say what she wants or makes no effort at all, comes to bed in flannel footy pajamas with cream on your face, or neglects to shave for weeks at a time (unless that’s your bag, you know), then that, too, can lead to bad s3x.

9. You’re Afraid to Try New Things

Like say, spontaneity is important in your s3x life. This falls in line with going with the flow sometimes. Don’t be afraid to try new things. Sometimes being too plain vanilla makes it seem like you’re bad at s3x. Besides, again, you don’t ever have to do anything you don’t like; if you try it and hate it, then so be it.