Ladies: 5 Signs That He Is Not Telling The Truth

A man was asked, ''Did you sleep with another woman other than your wife?''. He replied, ''I have been happily married for 20 years, with two kids and i love my wife very much.''

Realize that this man is trying to divert from the question by giving an honest answer without necessarily answering. Secondly, he is trying to set up a positive frame.

1 You should be aware of the fact that there's no one sign or a cluster of signs to prove that a man is lying
There are no clear-cut signs that show a man is lying. If that was the case, then the law enforcement authorities wouldn't be deceived anyway.

First, clear your mind of all the things you think you know about lie detection techniques. There is no scratching of the nose, no avoiding eyes or licking lips that show he's lying. In short, examine the whole picture instead of single words or action.

2 He uses common lie detection myths to hide
Trust me, he knows about them too. So he will try to maintain eye contact with you, show his palms etc. when you confront him. However, if he does these things first, then most likely he had anticipated the question, which should arouse suspicion.


On the other hand, if he does them on subsequent occasions when you ask him several questions afterwards, then it's meaningless because he only wants you to believe his first answer.

3 He uses honest answers to answer your questions
A man will use this trick to answer while trying to divert your question. For example, you can ask, ''Have you seen the secretary today?'' Then he replies, ''She didn't come to work today.''

Now, suppose the secretary didn't come to work, then it's an honest answer, but he didn't actually answer what you had asked him. If facts were on his favor, he would have simply said, ''No, the secretary didn't come to work today.''.... Hope you're seeing the subtle difference.


4 He gets angry when you ask
Remember there's no clear cut rule to prove he's lying. So maybe he's getting angry because he is tired. However, some men use getting angry as a defensive mechanism. Getting angry is a manipulative approach of trying to make you shut up. So you should be suspicious about that.

5 The killer ''Why?'' question
Suppose you suspect he was at the bar and he will not admit it, don't be aggressive or push too hard. But you can ask him at some point-----Ask question like, ''Is there any reason why someone may have spotted you at the bar?''Don't mention any person by name because they will easily discredit that person.

Such questions make men assume you already know everything. If he is guilty for whatever reason, he will ask you ''why,'' Then you should be suspicious at this point.