Perhaps he's married, yet you pretend that he is your boyfriend.
Well, it's not your mistake because you never instructed your heart to love him.
So, here's how to play it safe
1 Respect her. Ladies, you have to respect his First Lady. Don't call her one day and start insulting her about her bad dressing or telling her that she doesn't deserve that man the way you do.
2 Never speak ill of her or her children. Also, make sure you don't stalk her on social media.
3 Don't call that man in the dead of the night when you know very well he is with his First lady.
4 Know your territory well. The benefit of becoming a ''side chick'' is being treated as trophy. He'll show you off to his business partners and naughty friends. That's a privilege the first woman will never get.
5 The only downside is, he will never go with you to family meetings because the society doesn't recognize you.
6 Let's get it right; weekends are set aside for family matters. On Saturday, he needs to take his son to ''Ligi ndogo''. Her daughter needs to celebrate her birthday when he's around.
7 On Sunday, he is acting as the good husband, he is taking his family to church, so don't call or disturb.
8 Do not expect this man to spend Christmas or New year with you. Your days with him will be outside holidays, say boxing day or 2nd of January. Mark that.
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