1.Make Your First Impression Count
DO NOT fumble. The fact that most guys act nervous on the very first date itself kills the entire essence of the purpose. There can be nothing worse than not having to say anything to each other the first time you come across a woman. Act confident and don't say anything stupid to show that you're braving a storm inside your head. Let her take cues, guess answers to your questions and call it a night leaving her wanting to know more.
2.Be A Challenge
Instead of doing the hard work, create situations where she has do the chasing instead. Don't be the desperate, needy, and always-eager-to-please guy. Come across as a powerful guy, who has a lot going on his life and wouldn't go after a woman. Instead, build the mystery factor and draw them towards you.
3.Ask The Right Questions
You are doomed forever if your opening statement is "Do you have a boyfriend". Period. Women generally think of us with a one-track mind, and this is your chance to prove them wrong. Never get into silly questions or details. Instead, ask her what's her equation with pets. Or what's her favourite genre of music and that you could play the song once she agrees.
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4.Don't Linger
Too much of anything is bad. And trust us, women don't like men hovering around them all the time and "Baby'-ing them. Give them the chance to yearn for you. Stay close, but stay away. Let them come after you when you make yourself scarce. In other words, use absence to make her heart grow fonder.
5.Pay Attention To Small Details
Buying her a bouquet of roses everyday or dropping obvious compliments aren't going to earn you any brownie points. Women are suckers for details. Tell her how her dress reminded you of your favourite love story writer, or drop her a text about how she's in your thoughts even when you are not around. She will definitely come back for more of those.
6.Know Where To Draw The Line
You like her, she likes you back. Next thing: You ask her out on a date. And again. And again. Stop doing that right away. Give her the chance to miss you. If she asks you out for dinner one night, play around a bit. Tell her you are not sure, you might have to check. Of course, don't keep refusing her every time; else you might lose the bird in hand. Figure out the real way and you could be the real boss!
7.Test Her
In an interview, the balance strikes when both parties have doubts and both their doubts are clarified. Do not go on blurting out everything about yourself without asking her a single thing. Find out what her likes and dislikes are, and whether she fits the bill too or not. It's crucial to do so, as this gives women an assurance that you are equally interested to take matters forward. Add a pinch of humour to the questions and you are on the right path, my friend!
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