How do i know what she wants in bed???

1.Acknowledge that you’re different: Let your girlfriend know that you understand you’re both different in how you were raised, and how you were taught to view and talk about s3x. Tell her that you love the many differences between you and you’re not trying to change her to be like you. Your aim is to get to know her better, to achieve greater happiness for her and you both as a couple.
2.Share how important it is to you: Explain that being able to pleasure her in bed is a priority for you. She may not know this.
3.Ask her to show you what she enjoys: Perhaps that will be easier for her than talking about it, and there may be something she’d like you to discover in bed together but she’s not sure of. Be aware that she may not be telling you what turns her on simply because she hasn’t done a lot of self-exploration.

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4.Bookmark ideas: Look through books and magazines for things you’d like to try or think she might like. Ask her to read them and keep the ones she likes. Also look online – there are some great interactive apps that empower women and men to explore their sexuality and pleasure together.
5.Remember that change is slow: Every communication you share on this subject is a step in the right direction. Don’t expect huge change all at once – pressure her and you’ll get the opposite of what you want.
6.Talk about your “ideal relationship”: What do you both want, inside and outside the bedroom? Discussing your relationship is a great gateway to talking about s3x, especially for people who are shy.