Here Are The 6 Signs Of A Cheater

Do you know that 50 to 60 percent of married men engage in extramarital sex at one time or another during their marriage? Often the women in their lives have no clue what they did. You need to have some basic knowledge to protect yourself. So how does one spot a cheater? Here are warning that your man may stray or that he is already cheating on you.

1. He has Cheated Before

They say once a liar always a liar. Undoubtedly, past cheating behavior is the most reliable predictor for future cheating behavior. He may pretend he is a changed person later to burst out in streets with another woman over you’re the expense of your relationship.

2. He has no Sense of Guilt

Men who don’t feel remorse or guilt when they do something wrong are prime candidates for cheating. They won’t have those emotions holding them back. They fell for love with you for the same reason they are leaving you for others. After all it doesn’t hold him back nor does it hurt him.

3. He’s an Excellent Liar

If he is good at lying about other things in his life, like where he is at a given time, the time he will spend there, the friends he is hanging out with then he is likely good at lying to you about cheating.

4. He Learned it at Home

Well they say like mother like daughter and vice versa. If one or both of his parents were routinely unfaithful, then he is more likely to be inclined to cheat. He is following their footsteps.

5. He Recently Lost his Job

Unemployment puts strain on a marriage and can make a man feel vulnerable, especially if the job was important to him and defined his identity. When a man doesn’t feel so good about himself, he may boost his self-esteem through an affair.

6. He is Spending Less Time with You

You’re watching TV; he’s on the computer. You go to bed; he stays up late. You’re in the same house but not really together. If a man is organizing his life to spend less time with you, it doesn’t really matter whether he has met someone. Behavior like this signals a distance that becomes a breeding ground for infidelity.

7. He is Being Less Affectionate

Perhaps he doesn’t cuddle with you in bed anymore. Or he comes to bed fully dressed when he once slept nude. These are all ways of disconnecting and may indicate he is getting his intimacy somewhere else.

8. His Computer Habits have Changed

Check his computer’s browser history once in a while to see where he’s been. A new and secretive email account would be a red flag. A new email account doesn’t necessarily mean your significant other is having an affair; but it becomes more likely if he is not willing to share the content of the account with you.

9. His Cell Phone Habits have Changed

Lastly, beware of new cell phone habits. For example, he suddenly gets a new phone with a password lock. Or perhaps now he keeps his cell phone in his pocket when in the past he would leave it on the counter. Or maybe he used to make calls and send texts while you were around, but now excuses him self each time the phone rings.