Hey ladies in the house, don’t know if you’ve experienced this bu it’s the truth. It’s always annoying when we try our best to advice or correct our guys/boyfriends when they are wrong or better still not admitting that they are ever wrong but always claim to be right. Have you ever thought why this is so?
Maybe because society deems them the head, so decision making is their forte. Anyway I don’t think it’s a male thing. The environment we are in gives a man lots of freedom and power to rule the family without providing him enough limitations may if he goes astray yo welcome corrections.
1. It’s Nature but Love Conquers All
It is a natural feeling which grows to any male leave alone human beings even male wild animals have that mentally thing that they are superior over their females and its something we can’t plug it out of their systems. But I tell you where there is love, there is correcting and is received with both hands. It’s a natural phenomenon, never look at it with a gender binoculars, they just don’t like been corrected. Change to them is like a syndrome”
2. It’s not a Thing for Everyone
Yes. It doesn’t sound well at all! Today he corrected you and tomorrow you are there you want to correct him. Oooh no, to him such imitations are an bearable, he can’t stand that. It’s like you were putting him in a lookout so that if he slightly wrongs you he meets your corrections, I tell you will be only making noise to yourself, he will never welcome this. If everyone in the world made it a habit to correct the other person then this world will be unbearable to live in.
3. Men Think they are Always Right
It is because people (including men cheesy) usually trust their own judgment and think they are right. The Man thinks he’s right. The GF/Wife who is trying to correct the man also thinks she’s right. This is human character, not man character. The man thinks he got more experience in everything, he sees no reason why he should be corrected. Note that he sometimes takes correction but would never admit that u made him change. Don’t push it though, when you advise him and he doesn’t listen, leave it that way. The wise ones always ponder on advices given.
4. What Other Word but EGO?
They think it is because they run the world. Nothing else can change them only a fellow man. Not that they disrespect women but because of male chauvinism, they feel they are men and should not be treated like the other gender, they are men. Men rules baby, but as someone says, love conquers all. ‘’ I always listen to the one I love but not when it’s fucking time’’ some men have got ego and believe that.
5. The Way of Approach
The way you approach your man means a lot in a relationship. Understand his psychology first.
Men think they are alpha male and lead, so are therefore always right though it depends on the type of guy and the type of advice because others don’t hate the advice but showing them how silly they are is what they hate most.
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