Things that Single Mothers do that scare men away from dating them

Being single and with a kid is not bad at all. In fact, men love women who know how to be responsible. The fact that you pay your own rent, you take your child to school and you manage your house on your own is fool proof that you are very responsible woman.

But there are times when dating single moms is difficult, and so we choose to hunt the single and childless.

I hate it when all you can talk about is your child
Truth be told, all men hate it when all you can talk about is how much you love your kid, how they are your reason for living....bla bla bla!! Men hate it very much, though they will not show it on your face.

If you're fond of talking these thing in front of your potential mate, be sure that they'll retreat. Men too love attention. If they feel that you're too focused on your child such that you're not giving them enough of your time, they'll look elsewhere.

It's good to mention that you have a child, but it bothers me so much when i can't book a date with you in the evening because you're missing your son or daughter so much that you can't spare an hour at the restaurant with me. It puts me off!!

But there's a way you can date while you maintain your mother-status, without scaring away the man.

Rule Number 1
I may love your kid, but don't spend the better part of your time telling me how your son wants to become a pilot, how they are bright in school etc.

Rule Number 2
I understand that when i am dating you, i agree that i'll take you as a whole package, you plus your kid. But don't make my life so difficult by making me take the role of a dad so early in the relationship, it will scare me away.

Oh!! And i feel disappointed whenever you cancel my dates unexpectedly because something involving your child came up.